Every time I start feeling unsure or sad these days I do something that a friend recommended about a week ago.
I kiss each of my shoulders and I say “I love you Cynthia”
Maybe that is why I felt good after that interview even though I didn’t shine as much as I would have liked. Cuz I said that over and over and over again.
I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia I love you Cynthia
What is your name? Do it with me now. Kiss your shoulders in a gentle loving way (or heck, nibble them lovingly, whatever works for you) and say “I love you _____________.” Do this when you go to sleep at night. Do this when you wake up in the morning, when you go to sleep at night, any time you need a loving boost.
Seems like a good idea but I really can’t see myself kissing my shoulders. Perhaps some verbal affirmations would suit me better.
Thanks.
Then by all means don’t. Makes absolutely no difference to me.
sounds like a sweet and lovely idea, but I am nowhere flexible enough to kiss my own shoulders. Maybe I should blow a kiss in their general direction? But kindheartedly, I am glad to hear that you are continuing to move forward through the challenging current events in your life. I was hoping to see you this last weekend, but understand that life intervenes, and as a friend, want only that you continue to do what will help you heal and grow. You are always welcome to come and visit us at Acorn Cottage.
So kiss your wrists. 😉
I had wanted to come on Sunday but I didn’t get your address or directions to Acorn Cottage. Because I would love to come.
The last bits that have to happen for all the crises are done. Everyone that needed to has arrived in France. Now we get to just get on with living. Yay!