The Boot Lady

Life continues…

Been looking for a new pair of leather boots, the kind that will not only last through the winters but the kind of classic style and quality that will last a couple decades like my last ones did.  I had to give them up because my calves became too large to fit them any more.  Not surprising, this has always been a problem even in my smallest days of size 6.  As a sprinter and hurdler, skiier and dancer, my calves have always been “developed.”  I found a few short pairs that I liked a lot, two with cuban heels  but they were $155 and I just couldn’t justify it.  Not only was that way over my budget but they were online and I couldn’t try them on first and they would have been a total pain to deal with if they didn’t work.  I could buy some of the biker boots, my last pair were harley’s with the harness, but they’ve become so fashionable, so trendy, that I really didn’t want to go there at all.

There are two really styling women at my noon meeting.  Both boots and jeans women.  I asked one where she shopped and she seemed mortified that I would ask.  The other happily told me all about the boot lady from the local farmers market.  And that she’d opened a new shop right up the street, which it turns out I had driven past the week before and wondered.

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Soup ~ Cancer for the Week

Soup is your metaphor for the week, Cancerian. Symbolically speaking, it’s the key to your personal power and a model for the approach you should take in everything you do. On the most basic level, you might want to eat some soup every day. That will make potent suggestions to your subconscious mind about how to mix lots of ingredients together so that their value and beauty as a totality are more than the sum of their parts. Not just in the kitchen, but in every area of your life, blend many little miscellaneous things into one big interesting thing.

Working on it, working on it.

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No News

Is Good News.

I can tell you that meetings with my sponsor are going well. I’ve been doing some 10th step work with her and I have to say she’s been very kind and so far she hasn’t assigned me any amends.  So far so good.  For those who aren’t familiar:

Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

I had some questions for her.  Am I walking around with a big shield up? Am I coming across as hardened?  My heart still aches for my parents, still healing from the loss of friends and a family member, still healing from last winter’s severe crack.   Am I too brutally honest? Do I hurt people?  M said he couldn’t be with me because I was brutally honest (after he said I was too old) and even though I don’t trust that, am I?  I’m going to remain vigilant but assume he’s just still raw in general and is only afraid I might be, not that I have been.  Usually if I say something harsh it rings in my head until I apologize. I got no head ringing.

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