Those of you who have been entertained enough to follow me for some many years now will know that this is not the first incarnation of my blog. I started many years ago in livejournal then in 2005 moved to wordpress, Weaving The Web, because I wanted freedom of expression and to get away from folks I thought were trying to limit me. God/dess knows I do that enough my own self, don’t need any help. Then in 2008, though staying with wordpress, I created this third incarnation, Love Not Fear. I brought all the old posts over, even a few from livejournal, so this site is a mostly complete record.
The name Love Not Fear overrides the actual account hidingplainsight. I’ve been Hiding in Plain Sight for a few years now. I have written a lot about my own personal process. At times it has been, ahem, CHALLENGING, to stay honest when I am not presented in a flattering light. Like most of us, not all of my personal growth has been pretty. Some felt hurt by it. I’ve had a lot of growing pains in the last 5 years, more intense and deeper than usual.
One of the things that has also been difficult is that I have indeed been hiding in plain sight. My ex, The Forgiven, and my brother were very upset with me over some things I posted. Some of my friends in the SCA would write, oooh don’t say that because imortant people are watching and you might not get a Laurel (Big damn award, uh huh). I said no to the SCA, no to the Laurel (not that it was offered but I stopped yearning for it), and no to the friends. I refused to be censored and that is how my current incarnation here began. Hiding to be free.
All of this might lead you to think I’m going away. But I’m not!!! I have, however, decided to start anew. I want to be able to share my work and my thoughts and my writings with people who are close to me and have been for years. I have not wanted to share all of my process with them. I have been considering for some time that I have a book in me and I think of it often. One day maybe I’ll do it. For now though, I want to be able to continue writing and teaching and creating and I want to be visible.
When I was going to the channeler of Jeshua with the ex, it was quite validating. One thing Jeshua said to me was that I had spent many lifetimes feeling invisible and that this was the lifetime where I overcome that. I want to be seen and it hardly supports that when I am hiding my self away afraid that those who know me shouldn’t read my thoughts. I’m still not sure I want them to read the archives. I’m not ready for that but I am ready to have them see me now, as I am now.
As you know, I have reconnected with old friends through facebook and for me it has been very uplifting. I don’t friend just anyone, only those I know and with rare exception those I would like to know. But many of them I will never send here. I don’t publish this url anywhere. I want to share now. My latest status update said this:
As I get to re-know my friends from days long past, I realize how inherent my feelings of separation are. How I never knew anyone loved me. I see now that I was wrong, I was loved for sure, but it kind of blows my mind how different my life would have been if I had believed from the start that I was lovable…
We pick up from where we stand…
I’ve been uncovering myself this past year. I have purple hair now! It suits me. I’m drawn back to some of my roots. That free spirited girl I used to be, the one who thumbed her nose at conformity and the status quo wants to fly again. The self-destruction isn’t welcome but there was much that was good about me and the way I lived my life and refused to conform for the comfort of others. It calls to me. But in a healthy, embracing, loving, and creative way. Something that builds… If you build it they will come.
I have this fear of heart attack. Two of my women friends have had massive heart attacks in the past 3 years. Serious widow makers. They both survived, one of them quite amazingly since the hospital was a long drive and a ferry ride and another long drive away. They are both disabled for the rest of their lives. With that in mind, 2012 I want to nurture my spirit more than my body, work the muscles and see if they remember my hurdling track and field days. My God, I do not have a double chin, it just happens when I reach back to look up at the guy and laugh, but boy I do have some extra pounds. Introducing MR. FURNACE! Who loves me just as I am as I do him.
Not pitchforks! Cake. The cake has got to go…
With that in mind, I’ve created a new blog. A place where I will share some thoughts, some tutorials, and lots of creativity! I won’t post as often as I have before but more than lately. I think that what I do post will be worth the waiting for. I thought that since I own stitchwitchcottage.com I might as well continue in that vein. Maybe I’ll even update that site. I have a few tutorials in the thought bubble. While the blog won’t be entirely witchy there will be some of that too. Right now my spiritual path is in flux,weaving and bending and flowing and I’m not worrying too much about what to call it or me. But I do have projects galore to share. And joy! I have joy to share!
So. Watch for a new post in a couple weeks (I have a LOT to do to get ready!! like new masthead and site design and a couple posts in the queue)… Stitch Witch Cottage is coming soon to a puter near you!